Amos Lee at Wolf Trap

Last night I went to my first concert since the pandemic started. If you’ve been around here at all you know how desperately I love and missed live music. I’m trying to take as much as I can in now while there are a lot of shows outside because things do not seem to be going in the right direction COVID wise and I’m not sure how willing I’m going to be to go to inside concerts this winter when there will probably be a lot of young unvaccinated people crowded together.

This was a really nice reentry into the concert world. During June and July Wolf Trap was doing socially distanced shows. You had to buy pods, so we actually paid for a pod of four on the lawn even though there were only too of us. Sadly I don’t know any other Amos Lee fans to take the extra tickets. It’s a shame because he’s great. There was also no opening act so it started at 8 and ended at 9:30, which is just about perfect for me, especially at a Wolf Trap show. I was actually home before my bedtime instead of 12:30 am like usual. I wish all concerts were like that.

Amos is not doing a full tour yet. He just a few random dates here and there, so he was just playing acoustic solo rather than with his band which was a-ok with me. It just felt like a live version of the weekly Instagram Live concerts he did every Thursday night during the first year of the pandemic. It really did help keep me going, and I’m so thankful for him. It felt like the perfect thing that my first concert back was Amos Lee at my favorite Baltimore/DC area venue.

The concert was great. He is super funny joking a lot between songs. He also is one of the few artists I’ve seen that doesn’t come out with much of a set list. He just kind of decides what to play on the fly and also took a bunch of requests from the audience. He played a couple of new songs off his forthcoming album, which has been on hold since the pandemic started. One of the songs he played so much on the Instagram shows that I actually forgot that it’s not already been released.

Amos does a lot of work with Musicians On Call an organization that sends musical artists to hospitals to play for people, and he always seems to be attuned to his fans that are battling a significant illness. He befriended a kid named Jordy over the Instagram concerts and Jordy even came on and played with him one night. Apparently Jordy is from Virginia so he too was at the concert last night and Amos dedicated the song “Kid” to him because they used to play it together. It was a very sweet moment, and I love that song and it doesn’t seem to be one he plays a lot so I was very happy to hear it. He also ended the show with a song called “Charles St.”, which I’m not even sure I’ve ever heard before or at least paid attention to when I did hear it because the Charles Street in reference is actually the Charles Street in Baltimore. He said he had some friends from Baltimore who were also in the audience so he was singing it for them. Most of the song doesn’t have anything to do with Baltimore and you would never know he was referencing that until the very last night until it references Charles Street and I-83 when it definitely becomes obvious to anyone who knows. So that was kind of fun and just reinforced even more that this concert felt like a perfect live music come back.

It definitely reminded me of the joys of seeing live music. Even though it was a limited crowd due to the social distancing they had in place there was a lot of energy in the place. There was a lot of clapping and singing together. All the things that you just can’t experience watching concerts over a computer like I did so often for the past year. I’m so happy to have concerts back in my life. Please go get vaccinated if you haven’t yet, so that I can keep them.

New Music Friday: John Mayer and 98 Degrees

There is plenty of new music from my indie rock/American wheelhouse that I could write about today including new albums by Clairo, Lawrence Rothman, and Willow. Instead I’m going to step outside my wheelhouse and write about the new yacht rock album by John Mayer and a new pop single by 98 Degrees.

I do not like John Mayer. I have never liked John Mayer. He was starting at a disadvantage with me in that his debut album was one of the in-store plays back when I worked at Barnes & Noble. Even if you like music hearing it over and over again while you’re working is bound to make you hate it eventually. I really only ever liked the song “Neon” off that album, so it wasn’t the repetitiveness that completely ruined it for me, but it certainly didn’t help. I just don’t like whatever genre of music John Mayer, Jack Johnson, and Jason Mraz fall into. I once took an Uber from San Francisco to the Oakland airport in which the driver had a playlist of those three artists on shuffle and I really wanted to give him a bad rating because of it. Don’t worry; I didn’t.

Anyway, John Mayer has a new album called Sob Rock out today that is homage yacht rock. They were talking about it on NPR’s All Songs Considered podcast this morning and someone said “I regret to inform you that John Mayer’s new yacht rock album is actually good.” I like yacht rock a lot and didn’t completely hate the snippet of the song they played, so it made me curious enough to listen to the whole thing. So here’s the thing. The album does indeed very much sound like yacht rock in its musical style. Most of it does feel like an homage to the genre, but sometimes it also feels like it’s making fun of it. I mean if you’re going to make a song that sounds like Air Supply’s “Even the Nights are Better” with the chorus,

Why you no love me?
Why you no love me?
Why you no even care?
Why you no love me?
Why you no love me?
Why you no will be there?

it’s going to sound like a parody. My problem is that ultimately it still sounds like John Mayer. I had the same problem with Taylor Swift’s folklore. Yes, I like the music at the root of the songs better, but the voice is still the same and you can’t get away from that. There are a bunch of instrumental breaks in the songs that I would really be digging and then John Mayer would start singing again and ruin it all for me. Something about his voice is just not for me. If you are a John Mayer fan and you do like yacht rock, you should love this album. And I do have to give him credit for going all in on the aesthetic. I mean the music video for “Shot in the Dark” looks like it came straight out of the 80s.

I also wanted to talk about the new 98 Degrees song, “Where Do You Wanna Go” that I ran across last night. I was just slightly too old to be super into the 90s boy bands. I live in the world so of course I know plenty of songs by the Backstreet Boys and ‘NSync, but I was never a groupie and don’t even think I owned any of their albums. During my senior year of college my roommates and I were super into whatever Backstreet Boys album was popular at the time, but in a sort of ironic way, and I don’t think I’m the one who owned the CD (kids ask your parents). I also know that 98 Degrees was a band and I’m absolutely certain that I know one or two of whatever their hit songs were at the time, but I cannot tell you what they were without Googling, which I have not done.

This new song is a bop though. It’s got a great fun, summer pop song vibe that I’m digging. I do have to say that the video makes me kind of sad because it’s like these 40 year old guys still acting like they are 20. It’s a weird thing about being a boy band. People want you to look and sound like you did when they were all in love with you as teenagers, but now you’re old and it just seems like you’re sadly trying to recreate your youth even though what’s happening is that people want you help recreate theirs. So maybe just go listen to the song somewhere without the video and forget that these guys aren’t actually in their 20s anymore and just enjoy the music.

TV Diary

It’s time once again for my thoughts on some of the new shows I’ve been watching.

Cruel Summer

This was a sort of fun little summer show on Freeform and Hulu. I’m not sure I liked it as much as everyone else seemed to as it sort of became the cult hit of the summer, but it kept me engaged enough. The premise is that each episode takes place on the same day during three different years: 1993, 1994, and 1995. I’m not going to lie I initially decided to keep watching the show because it starts on the 15th birthday of the one of characters who is exactly 3 days older than I am and also in high school in Texas in the mid-90s as I was. Kate is a popular girl who disappears during the first year. Jeanette is a socially awkward girl who wants to get in with the popular kids and manages to do so while Kate is gone, but then Kate returns and accuses Jeanette of knowing where she was being held hostage and not reporting it. Jeanette then becomes a pariah in the town. You bounce back and forth across the timelines trying to figure out what happened to Kate when she was kidnapped and whether or not Jeanette actually did know about it. I didn’t love the twist ending because I didn’t think it was as twisty as they thought it was, but it was decently entertaining if you can get past the horrible wigs and lighting they use to help distinguish the timelines. I will say I was never confused about what year we were in, but ooph that stuff was bad. Also I literally couldn’t tell any of the white guys in this show apart. I could never figure out which one was the boyfriend, which one was the brother, and which was another friend without the context clues of the scene. It’s been renewed for a second season. It will be interesting to see where it goes since the central mystery has been resolved.

Hacks

Hacks on HBOMax stars Jean Smart as a big name comic with a long running Vegas gig, Deborah Vance, who is starting to get pushed aside for younger and more subversive talent. Hannah is a television writer who basically gets canceled for some Twitter joke, but everyone seems to agree has a lot of talent. The agent that represents both of them and who is struggling with how to deal with both of their currently tanking careers convinces Hannah to move to Vegas and work with Deborah to bring a newer sensibility to her comedy. They are both unlikeable in various ways, but you also want to root for them. They eventually develop a grudging relationship and respect for each other. It’s a really good show. Jean Smart is really at the apex of her career in this role and should definitely win the Emmy she was just nominated for.

We Are Lady Parts

We Are Lady Parts is a Peacock show about five Muslim women who form a punk band. Amina is the lead character who is a somewhat socially awkward woman who loves playing the guitar but gets performance anxiety so bad that it makes her vomit. She is also a devout Muslim woman who trying to find a husband. It’s a really great show that shows lots of facets of Muslim women and has some fun rom-com elements. I was very sad when we finished the sixth episode and I realized it was the last one. Stupid Brits and their stupid short seasons.

Mythic Quest

We just finished watching the two seasons of the AppleTV+ show Mythic Quest, which is a workplace comedy surrounding people who work at a video game design company. I wasn’t sure about it at first, but it definitely grew on me. It also likes to play with it’s format and sometimes have episodes that don’t even involve the main characters at all. The characters can be a bit cartoonish, but they also grow as people so there’s a bit of a balance there. I will say that this show hands down had the absolute best “Zoom” quarantine episode created when filming still couldn’t take place in person. It used the format perfectly and I still get shivers thinking about the last couple of scenes. The show is almost worth watching just to watch that episode.

The Morning Show

The Morning Show is also on AppleTV+. It was their flagship show when launching the service. It stars Jennifer Aniston, Reese Witherspoon, and Steve Carrell. I have no idea how I got the misconception about what this show was about in my head given the amount of press that it got when it came out, but for some reason I totally thought it was a 30 minute sit-com about people who worked on a morning show. Not so much. It’s actually an hour long drama about people who work on a morning show. At least I got that last part right. It’s in the title, so you know I’m super on top of things. Steve Carrell and Jennifer Aniston are long time hosts of the show when he loses his job after his sexual behavior on set comes to light as part of the #metoo movement. It’s very much a take off of the real life scandal involving Matt Lauer. Reese Witherspoon is the reporter who winds up replacing him and who decides to try and dig deeper into who knew and how much was covered up. I’m a little annoyed that the last shot of the season was of Steve Carrell, but that’s really neither here nor there. I enjoyed it for the most part and will watch the second season when it comes out, though I’ll be interested to see where it goes from here given how things sort of wrapped up in way on the first season.

Starstruck

Starstruck is a quick six episode rom com type series on HBOMax. Jessie is sort of a screw up who doesn’t really have her life together who winds up hooking up with Tom on New Year’s Eve not realizing he’s a famous actor until the morning after. I didn’t love this show as much as I was expecting or apparently as much as everyone else based on what I’ve seen people say about it. There was some cute banter between the characters, but ultimately I didn’t necessarily think they should be together. The show is not a straightforward they meet and then their relationship progresses from there with various barriers. Instead it feels like it very much starts and stops with each episode being set in a new season over the course of a year, so they basically keep running into each other and then having that connection end badly so they part ways until they run into each other again. I’m like yeah every time you meet it is terrible so why does this show want to make me think you should be in an actual relationship with each other? There is going to be a second season and I will probably watch it, but this definitely didn’t hit me the way it did a lot of other people.

30 Rock

I never watched 30 Rock when it was on, but for some reason finally decided to take the plunge and watch all of it on Hulu recently. I know people still love this show and quote it all the time, but coming at it fresh in 2021 it felt very cringey and out of touch particularly in regard to race based jokes of which there were a lot. I know Hulu even pulled a few episodes that had blackface in them, so I didn’t even see the worst of it. I obviously enjoyed it enough to watch it all, but I definitely didn’t love it and in some ways don’t exactly feel good about having watched it.

High on the Hog

High on the Hog is a four episode mini-series on Netflix about the history of the African-American influence on food based on the book of the same name. Stephen Satterfield travels to various places around America and Africa to explore African-American food culture and it’s influence on American cuisine. If you enjoyed Taste the Nation or Somebody Feed Phil this show should be right up your alley.

Young Royals

Young Royals is a Swedish show tv show available on Netflix. It’s about Prince Wilhelm who after a scandal is shipped off to a boarding school he avoided attending in the first place. Now he’s told he needs to be on the straight and narrow, but he finds himself falling for a local kid named Simon. Their relationship would certainly go against royal protocol. This was an enjoyable teen drama type show. It is in Swedish with English subtitles so you can’t be adverse to reading your television if you want to watch it.

Lodge 49

I don’t even really know how to describe Lodge 49. Dudley is sort of a surfer dude bum type guy who has just been sort of lost since the death of his father and the loss of their pool cleaning business. His sister works a dead end job at a Hootersesque restaurant. He gets involved with a local lodge that has sort a Masons type vibe. There’s a lot of crazy stuff that happens that I can’t really describe. The show definitely had some Twin Peaks vibes to me because of the weirdness. It was okay. I’m not sure that I’d super recommend it.

The Underground Railroad

Unlike the rest of the world I didn’t really like Colson Whitehead’s book that this show on Amazon Prime is based off of, so I’m not sure why I thought I might like the tv show. I did not. It’s ten episodes. I made it through five and when my husband went to put on the sixth and I realized we were only halfway through I was like I really don’t want to watch this anymore. It’s sort of a fantastical story about slavery in that the underground railroad is an actual railroad. You follow a slave named Cora as she tries to escape slavery and the slave catcher that is determined to catch and return her to slavery. It’s sort of a disjointed story, which is one of the things that made it hard to connect to as well as just the depressing subject matter. I will say that episode one is worth a watch though. It really has the single most harrowing and horrific scene about the evils of slavery that I have ever seen. I heard a lot of chatter about a scene in that first episode and I knew it was what everyone had been talking about as soon as I got to it. Nothing else that I watched lived up to that scene and I feel like having seen that was enough.

Sex/Life

I did not even make it all the way through the first episode of this Netflix show starring Sarah Shahi as an unfulfilled housewife who dreams about the more exciting sex she had with some ex. This show is essentially soft core porn with the terrible acting and storylines to go along with it. Since this show has been talked about a lot and has been sitting in Netflix’s top 10 since it came out, I guess there are plenty of people that are into that. I am not one of them. I at least need some decent acting and story lines to go along with my explicit sex scenes.

New Music Friday: Wild Turkey by Amythyst Kiah

Earlier this week on Instagram I was sharing my favorite albums of 2021 so far in my stories. I realized that somehow I hadn’t actually written about anything off of Amythyst Kiah’s album Wary + Strange. It’s a roots and Americana album in which Amythyst Kiah opens up about being a black, queer woman from Tennessee who has faced some traumatic experiences in her life. The song I’ve chosen to highlight is “Wild Turkey”, which is about her mother committing suicide by drowning herself in a river. It’s an excellent album all around, and I highly recommend taking a listen.

Also in case you’re wondering the other albums that made my favorite albums of 2021 so far list are Amythyst Kiah’s fellow Our Native Daughters band member, Allison Russell’s Outside Child, Japanese Breakfast’s Jubilee, Hiss Golden Messenger’s Quietly Blowing It, and girl in red’s if i could make it go quiet.

New Music Friday: Pom Pom Squad and Liz Phair

I was listening to new music by Pom Pom Squad and Liz Phair and it was making me think about how iterative music is. You have Pom Pom Squad, which is an indie punk/grunge rock band founded and fronted by 23 year old Mia Berrin. Their sound on their first album, Death of a Cheerleader, definitely evokes a lot of 90s era female rock for me. Then you have Liz Phair who actually began her music career during that period of the 90s who just put out a new album as well. You have the song “Spanish Doors” off of the new album Soberish which does have more of that similar sound, but you also have the song “In There” that is more of an evolved sound that doesn’t feel like it came from the 90s. I’m just fascinated by the idea that young kids listen to older music and are influenced by that sound while some of those same older acts are taking cues from newer music being created by younger artists and incorporating it into their sound. Music is fun y’all.

Family Reunion

I promised in a previous post that I would be writing about my recent trip to Massachusetts. I almost forgot to do it, but even though it’s a little delayed I’m finally getting around to it. For the most part I hadn’t seen any of my family since Christmas of 2019 before COVID. As you may recall my mom and sister did drive down from NJ and surprise me right before this last Christmas. I only got to spend about 90 minutes with them though and they were the only family I’d seen for a year and half.

My sister recently took a new job and moved back to Massachusetts with her family. Since all the adults and my eldest niece were vaccinated my husband and I decided to go up over my sister and my’s birthday (yes, we do have the same birthday one year apart). My parents decided to fly out from Arizona and we also got my cousin and her husband to come from St. Louis.

It was really great to get to spend time with my family again. My sister has a really nice pool and backyard area in her new house so we spent a lot of time hanging out by the pool. We also went hiking in a place called World’s End one day. I expected there to be some really dramatic vista or something given the name, but there wasn’t really. Although at some point you do get a nice view of Boston from across the water. My husband looked it up and apparently at one point they were planning on building a nuclear power plant there, so maybe that’s where the name comes from. We stopped on the way home at some place called the Lobster Pound and got lobster rolls. Being my family we also played a lot of cards while I was there.

My nieces are getting older and are now at the age where they don’t care that much about hanging out with me while I’m there. They were mostly off doing their own thing. I know it’s an inevitable part of growing up, but it’s still a little sad.

One day we’ll probably fly up when visiting, but I’m still not ready to get on a plane so we decided to drive up. It took us around 7 and a half on the way up with two stops and about 9 on the way back. My nephew once told me that Connecticut is the worst based on drives they used to make between NYC and Rhode Island. I am now inclined to agree with him. Connecticut is the worst. It’s long and the traffic is terrible. Also if you want to easily get food and use their service centers your choices are pretty much McDonald’s and Dunkin’ Donuts at every stop. For the few places that had additional offerings it seems like they didn’t survive the pandemic as the Qdoba at the one we stopped at on the way up was closed and the Sbarro at the one we stopped at on the way back was closed.

I would up eating McDonald’s for the first time in 16 years and remembering why I never eat McDonald’s. It only barely has a resemblance to actual food. It was not good at all. Coming home I decided to just get a milkshake and I couldn’t even drink that. It just tasted like chemicals to me and I thought it was disgusting. If you like McDonald’s I guess you do you, but I honestly don’t know how people eat it or why they choose to go there when they have literally any other option. We’ll probably be driving back up there at Christmas this year as well and I might pack myself food because it seems like all my other options on that drive are terrible.

I’m very happy that we’re finally at a place where I feel okay seeing family and friends again. I hope it stays that way.

New Music Friday: Highwomen Edition

I came here this morning to write about a song by Brittney Spencer, which I’m still going to do but along the way I also discovered a couple of other new songs out today and they were all interconnected so you’re getting all of them.

At the center of the connection is the cover of Lady Gaga’s “Highway Unicorn (Road to Love)” off of the tenth anniversary cover album of Born This Way. It’s sung by the core Highwomen, Brandi Carlile, Maren Morris, Amanda Shires, and Natalie Hemby along with Brittney Spencer and Madeline Edwards. They have always said that the Highwomen is a movement and not strictly a band of the four main members and they continue to draw new talent into the fold. It seems they have particularly been supporting Brittney Spencer since she covered one of their songs. Anyway, I really like this cover and am happy to have some more music created by these women.

As I mentioned I had originally planned on writing about a song by Brittney Spencer. I have actually been meaning to write about her music for over a year. She’s actually a Baltimore native and I read an article about her last year in the Baltimore Sun, but she hadn’t actually released her EP yet at that point. By the time it came out I kept meaning to write about it, but it just never happened for whatever reason. Despite all the momentum she seems to be gaining recently with an invite to sing at the Grand Ole Opry, a profile on CBS This Morning, a spot on CMT’s artists to watch showing in TImes Square, and other things she amazingly still doesn’t have a record deal. As a black, plus sized woman she definitely doesn’t fit the Nashville mold, so perhaps it’s not that surprising. Hopefully all the attention she’s getting means that things are changing in some small way and she will soon have the record deal and radio play she deserves. Last week she put out the single “Sober & Skinny” so it’s finally time that I too pay her some attention in my New Music Friday posts.

And finally Highwoman, Natalie Hemby released the song “Heroes” today. It felt like a nice little Highwomen trifecta when I realized that. I definitely enjoyed seeing her open for Brandi Carlile at the Ryman, so I’m very much looking forward to her full solo album.

Old Music Friday: Freedom Was a Highway by Jimmie Allen and Brad Paisley

Today is my birthday and I’m in Boston visiting my family for the first time since the pandemic started (another post on that later). The only reason that I have a post today is because I pre-wrote and scheduled this. It turns out that the song I heard that I knew I wanted to write about is not new at all, but hey as the old NBC slogan used to say about re-runs, it’s new to me. Perhaps it will be new to you too. If not, why did no one tell me about it?

I first heard this song on the radio on my way home from a friend’s kid’s birthday party last weekend. I’m woefully out of touch with new country music at the moment because in the past there were two ways that I really kept up with country music neither of which have really been a thing since the pandemic started. I have my alarm clock (Yes, I still use a clock radio for my alarm. It’s the same one I got for Christmas when I was like 8.) set to the local country radio station. Thus I used to hear country music lying in bed until I dragged myself up and then also while I was getting ready for work. Now however the time I get out of bed has shifted and thus it’s now such that I almost always wake up before my alarm even goes off and then when I’m getting ready for work I’m in a space of time that’s almost always commercials and the DJs talking rather than playing music. I also listen to the radio while I’m driving, but I haven’t done a whole lot of that in the past year and half either so I’m not too up on the new pop music or country music that I would also hear in the car.

So you’ll forgive me for having not heard “Freedom Was a Highway” by Jimmie Allen and Brad Paisley until this past week even though it came out almost a year ago. It’s off of Allen’s EP Bettie James, which is a collaborative album with some of country’s biggest stars on each of the songs. To me it’s a perfect country song. Country music always feels ideal for the summer and this song has the quintessential summer beat. It also does what country songs do best in evoking a feeling of nostalgia for a simpler time in our lives, but without being schmaltzy about it like too many country songs are. Also it’s not about trucks or half naked women or drinking, which is too much of a rarity these days in mainstream country music. I just really, really love the guitar work in this song. It’s such a good country song and I literally have had it on repeat since I first heard it. I hope you love it as much as I do.

New Music Friday: Parking Lot by The Weather Station

I was struggling to come up with a song to write about today. I’ve been in non-stop meetings for work this week, which means I haven’t been able to listen to music while I’ve been working. I had been counting on Lorde’s new single “Solar Power”, but I am just not feeling that song at all. Maybe it will grow on me, but it seems very silly without a good enough musical background to offset the trifling lyrics.

My normal go tos for new music on Fridays weren’t offering me anything either. I wasn’t very excited about any of the new albums that came out today either. The All Songs Considered New Music Friday podcast didn’t give me anything and neither did my Spotify Release Radar or WXPN’s Press Play feature. For some reason it seems to be somewhat of a slow week for new music. I probably would really like the new Ryan Adams album if I would listen to it, but he’s not getting any more of money so I’m not going to so we’ll never know.

So I wound up looking back at what I’ve added to my 2021 playlist in Spotify to see what else that’s fairly new that I could talk about. I settled on “Parking Lot” by The Weather Station. It’s the second single off their album Ignorance. I don’t really have much to say about it. It’s just a song I really like. So here you go.

New Music Friday: How Not to Drown by Chvrches ft. Robert Smith

A lot of artists drop several singles leading up to their album releases these days, and I try not to just repeat songs by the same artists in my New Music Friday posts even when I really like all the songs. It’s only been a few weeks since I last wrote about a Chvrches song, but I couldn’t resist writing about their newest single “How Not to Drown” that they released a few days ago. The reason is because it features Robert Smith of The Cure. If you’ve been around this blog for any amount of time you know how much I love The Cure, so this song felt like a real gift to me.

The song itself is about a time when lead singer Lauren Mayberry said she felt like quitting the band and music altogether. The song was released in conjunction with the formal announcement of their new album Screen Violence, which is due out on August 27. According to the band the new album will explore violence created by screens, on screens, and through screens. I’m loving the two songs I’ve heard from it so far, and I’m really hoping that things will be in a good enough place for me to see them on tour in November. I’ve gotten myself comfortable with the idea of some outdoor shows, but at least at this point I’m not ready for indoor concerts. It’s hard to imagine what things are going to look like in November or how I’m going to feel about them then.

Also I want to give a plug for the new Japanese Breakfast and Joy Oladokun albums that released today. I haven’t actually had a chance to listen to them yet, but I’ve been eagerly awaiting them and can’t wait to dig in.